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I am pretty sure that, if it were just me, I would be celebrating the holiday season with no more than a fat cup of egg nog, a James Taylor CD, and a few simple handmade gifts for friends and family.
But I have three children, and that means that - like most parents - I must balance the
spirit of the season with a series of nagging "wants" and whines.
Nothing squashes the spirit of Christmas more for me than this. But - it's a fact of life. So,
over the last seven years or so, I've found a few ways to help me prevent materialism
from stealing the season...
1. Make an agreement with the adults on your list that you will exchange either handmade items, or
donate to a charity in their name. When we model selfless gift-giving, it can make a big difference
to watchful children.
2. Discuss with your children, whenever possible this season, how it feels to give. Refocus on
the giving aspect of the holiday as much as you can.
3. Adopt a special cause each year. The Heifer Project (http://www.heifer.org/) is wonderfully
suited for holiday traditions. This charity allows you to purchase a gift animal for a family
in need (ranging from heifers to rabbits and everything in between). These gift animals then
provide resources that the recipients need to thrive in daily life. When we purchase a Heifer
Project gift
for someone, our kids draw a picture of the gifted animal, and we frame and wrap the
artwork.
4. Purchase your holiday cards from Unicef.
5. Ask each of your children to write a Dear Santa letter and to include at least three things
that they can't touch or see.
6. Focus on family traditions and celebrating family togetherness.
7. On Christmas Day, plan something to do directly after all the gifts are opened. No matter
how long a family spends unwrapping presents, there is sometimes a sense of deflation after the
last one. Each year, we get dressed to go to grandma's...
8. Help your children to raise money for a good cause this time of year. Organize a fundraiser
where the children wrap gifts for a donation or $1 or $2, for example.
9. Instead of a material gift, give something that will create memories. Some good ideas:
sporting events, plays, movies, concerts, a mother-daughter trip to the spa.
10. Make the process of preparing for the holidays every bit as important as the big day itself.
Carve out time for baking, decorating, and wrapping gifts as a family.
About the author:
Jamie Jefferson is a self-improvement columnist for Momscape.com and a student of
Success University. Visit her site today
to discover how you can enroll today for a simple $2 donation to Feed the Children:
http://www.momscape.com/success-university - and get $1749 in personal growth products free.
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