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Are you being kept up late at night worried sick that you
would never be able to find or keep your true love because
of a rival? Suspecting your date, lover or your spouse
having an extramarital relationship? Here's what you could
do so you could win back the one you love and keep them!
(1) Show your partner you respect their choices more than
anyone else.
Do not do anything or say anything which forces your partner
to do things or see things your way! If they have to make
their choice whether they want you or the other person, give
them no excuses to leave you for somebody else, show them
your respect! No one likes to live under the control of
another person. Your partner will more likely choose you if
you can show him or her that you are willing to give them
the freedom to make their own choices and respect his / her
wishes.
(2) Do not try to Compete
Do not try to compete with your rival, if you have one
around. When you are competing, you are struggling, and when
you are struggling, you create a lot of negative energy
around you, leading to unpleasant experiences with the
people who just happen to be with you. Instead, try to
create opportunities that lead to positive experiences,
especially with your partner around. Let your partner feel
that they can feel more at ease when he or she is together
with you. Let your partner feel more comfortable when being
with you than with somebody else.
(3) Avoid discussing issues relating to your rivals.
Whenever you are with your spouse or lover do not keep
asking or questioning them on issues relating related to
your rival (Examples: "Where did you go yesterday?" "What
did you give her…", "Why does he / she do this…", you get
what I mean). Asking such questions would only put his
defense system on autopilot and his / her replies to you
might not be truthful too. Most often than not, such
discussions lead to unpleasant experiences with your
partner, both of you might even fight or quarrel over
an
insignificant issue and further ruin your relationship. So
give your partner freedom of choice. Let them do whatever
they want and like, and you will find that they will
appreciate your understanding. If your partner finds that
he/she can breathe easier when being with you than with the
other person, they will come back to you, with no effort on
your part!
(4) Stop clinging to your spouse or lover like sticky glue
Recall the type of person you once were when you first
started seeing and dating your lover or your spouse. That
'person' you once were is the person whom your lover or
spouse once loved deeply. Be that 'person'. When you were
that 'person', you were someone who did not cling to your
partner like a parasite. You were independent, carefree, and
full of zest for life! This is the real 'you' whom your
partner love and like to be with. So drop all those
attachment. Practice detachment instead. If your
relationship is failing, other people will tell you 'Your
partner has changed.', or 'People change. This is life.'
Instead, pause for a moment and ask yourself "Has my
partner really change? Or is it I who have changed?" Have
you changed to someone who has become too demanding in your
relationship? Your partner love you for who you are. So 'be'
that independent person you once were!
Keep the above tips in mind, and you can be sure that you
will the heart of the one you love without any effort on
your part!
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