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Ask Linda:
Dear Linda:
How can I develop patience while waiting to fulfill my destiny?
Carmel R. – Wooster, MA
Dear Carmel:
I am a firm believer we have influence and command of the things we want out of life, providing we take the appropriate action. For example, if you want to be in a relationship you have to put yourself out there to meet more people or let your friends know you are available so that may play cupid or even join an on-line dating service. In order to get what you want you have to put yourself in a position to attract what you want.
On the other hand, I am also a firm believer that even though we may take all of the necessary steps to achieve our dreams, the one thing we can not completely control is: Time. I further believe Universal Law (i.e. God, Our Creator) sets forth when things will happen. Essentially, destiny happens when we are emotionally and spiritually ready to accept our purpose.
In order to develop patience while waiting for the Universe to provide, I might suggest learning how to:
Define your goals and then re-define your goals into smaller steps
Work toward achieving the proper education to fulfill your dreams (becoming educated also includes developing wisdom)
Be open to attaining your purpose in a form you may not have initially visualized. For example: Your goal was to become a doctor so you could help heal others. But due to a health issue medical school was out of the question so you opted to become a nurse. You have still fulfilled your destiny to heal others and more than likely while having to deal with your own medical
condition you developed a deep sense of compassion - a must have for a nurse.
Ask the Universe for what you want and add a timeline for when you would like to receive your goals.
Want without Attachment. It is like the poem reads “If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it’s yours. If it doesn’t, it never was”. The Universe will always provide us with what we need.
Be grateful for the tiny steps forward.
Be even more grateful for any size step backwards (this is when we learn our greatest lessons).
Develop a sense of Trust that the Universe will answer your prayers when you are ready to accept them.
Let Go and Let God.
Developing patience may take a lot of work, but know in the end your dreams will manifest.
Be well,
Linda Furiate
If you have a question for “Ask Linda” send it to Linda@portraitsindetermination.com. One question will be randomly chosen each month for this newsletter. To obtain a deeper understanding of your soul purpose and assistance to guide you toward your future, I would suggest an on-going series of individual mentoring and coaching sessions. To learn more log onto www.portraitsindetermination.com
Linda Furiate is a personal coach, mentor, astrologer and author. She is also the creator and host of Portraits in Determination, a cable access TV program showcasing the lives of those who have suffered adversity and have grown emotionally and spiritually as a result of their experiences. Stayed tuned for October 21, 2005 @ 4:00 p.m. PST to hear live on the internet a weekly radio version of the show – log onto http://www.health.voiceamerica.com For more information log onto http://www.portraitsindetermination.com
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