This is a posting from my favorite on-line research venue where many people have gathered to help each other.

Dear Healing...

First may I say that your defensive attitude towards what was posted here only shows that you have closed yourself down. While I do not agree with how confronting you on the issues are used to make you see that you had placed yourself as a guru here, I understand why they are being utilized. Such statements as: "Well, Bob's home, and,-I'm off DUTY!!~Yay~ only displays your own thoughts of how you had to teach everyone your lessons. Release yourself from such thinking. As I tried in a gentle way a while ago to tell you we are all our own coaches. While it is good to share what you have learned with others and speak on it, the art of listening has many understated values that can enrich our lives. I think at this time instead of ranting and raving you should take this time to relax and listen to others. When left to our own minds and voice, combined with not listening to others, we can only stroll down the road to an insane region.

Using the methods of PPC is not only for females. This type of thinking is displayed in both genders as I well know working with both sexes reversing the negative self image thinking into a positive mind set that not only includes self image but a view of the world as a whole. Balanced thinking. I chose to work with young women because that is where I can share my experience. By stating that the program I work in is female based I am only stating that I feel that at that tender age young girls need to be separated from the boys as well as visa versa. There are programs as we speak using PPC in a mixed gender based facility. It works. I believe your reaction here was mislead. I can only hope that you can be BIG enough to see that you are negating any positive energy that you may have put out there by posting on the boards with how you are reacting.

We all are healing, and we all have the responsibility of connectiveness to share our process with others. A truly healing individual will not react in the negative realm, nor will they be threatened by the opinions of others, therefore reacting in such manners as: name calling, running away, denial, anger and resentment.

You have an outstanding thirst for knowledge, but you took it upon yourself to proclaim yourself as the Guru of this site. There are no gurus. Robert is not so, Skull, Java, myself and any others that started the group. We are here to share the knowledge. It is the reader’s choice to ponder what is put forth and then make their own decisions. Take yourself off the pedestal and relax. Allow yourself the freedom to not have to control others or to shun them. If you let others in and feel the support of learning and sharing I know that you will learn the true lessons of being alive during this time.

I stated a month or so ago to you that at time "coaches" also need to step back and learn. One can not give all the time. The cycle is to give and receive. That is how it works. When one is peaceful within their soul and has learned the power of a powerful positive self image and love of self, they see this and allow all to follow their own path. We do not OWN anyone else's issues or thinking but we do own the responsibility to support others along their paths of healing. If you truly WANT to heal you will let down your survival tools and be vulnerable.

You can take this anyway as you would like. It is not a threat nor is it demanded that you embrace the philosophy. That is up to you. I only see that regardless of your postings on positive living etc.... you are a person in pain. Your actions display this. I do not base this because of a book I read nor because someone else told me that your actions are a result of the pain that lives within you. Please take this knowledge from a person who KNOWS FIRST HAND due to her personal experience. I was like you.

I have not conformed to some group that tells you have to be and act. I found my own path. Robert and I have butted heads many times but I always work from a balanced "Cathar" realm. Life is short and I want to live my life for my purpose of being; not to live through others thoughts and actions. When I gave up being angry and having to control everyone my life became peaceful. I became peaceful and strong. I saw the world with new eyes and understood why I was here. No one told me this; I learned it by listening to others and stopping my defensive, controlling, angry need to always be RIGHT.

I hope that you also can now just listen and learn from the many wonderful minds that come here. You can take what you need and leave the rest. You do not have to conform to anyone's philosophy. You can create your own. One thought though when creating it.... let it be positive. It takes one healing being touching another to recreate our negative society into the positive universe that was the mission of the Creator.

Be well and good luck~
Lady Lorraine

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