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Self Improvement > Spirituality > Nice Girls Dont Go Naked in their Dreams (or Do They!)
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My wife, Brenda and I were at some friends house one night to play some dominoes.
At one point during the evening, we started talking about dreams and particularly,
being naked in dreams. I mentioned a recent dream where I had been naked and
very openly so. Brenda mentioned that she had rarely if ever had a dream being
naked.
Growing up, she was raised in a fairly strict family and was not able to express
herself like she would have preferred. She once got in trouble at a young age for
saying “Golly”, as her mother thought that was out of line and just one step away
from profanity. Later in her first marriage, she was afraid to speak her mind without
feeling the wrath of her husband. So she grew up not being able to express herself
openly. So, from the soul’s perspective, it made sense that she hadn’t had any
dreams of being naked.
It seems that I have had my share of dreams being naked. No, this doesn’t
mean that I secretly wish to join a nudist colony. I grew up in a fairly open-minded
family. My father was known to say just about anything, not to provoke, but rather
to just sometimes get a rise out of someone. We used to call him a champion
“Bullshipper.” I think that some of my dad rubbed off on me.
Growing up, one of the neighborhood ladies use to say I was “such a nice boy.”
My oldest sister and I would laugh about that as we grew up. When we’re “nice” we
don’t say anything to offend anyone or speak our mind, in general. Or do we?
Society asks that we don’t “rock the boat,” but sometimes it sure is fun to do it
anyway.
From the soul’s perspective, being naked in a dream represents being open
and honest, particularly in regard to how openly you have communicated (revealed
yourself) to others.I can remember the many times that I have revealed a part of
myself to others in my waking life, only to be naked in my dream the following
night. Coincidence? No. Actually it serves as a perfect metphor with how openly we
share ourselves with others.
I was giving a talk once to a service club. At the end of the talk, one gentleman
in the back yelled out, “You know, my wife always dreams about being naked in
church!” Well, that dream spoke volumes to me. Since being naked represents being
open and honest, I knew exactly the meaning of her dream. A building in a dream
represents a state of mind we reside in from day to day. A church represents living
in a state of mind representing spirituality. So, I told that his wife is open and
honest about her spirituality. The man replied, “Yeah, she talks about that stuff all
the time.” Interestingly, a few months later I was giving another talk on dreams to
another service organization. The same man was there and again mentioned that his
wife dreams about being naked in church. I told him it means the same thing as it
did a few months ago!
How open and honest are you in your waking life? It is liberating being able to
speak your mind. You may find yourself, like my wife did, in situtations where is was
difficult to express herself openly. Once you take the steps to say what you are
really about the inner world takes notice. If you are tentative about revealing
yourself to others in your waking life, then you will most likely have a dream where
you are uncomfortable about being naked.
One night I dreamed about being naked while walking down a sidewalk. I then
saw a car coming in my direction and I openly “flashed” the people in the car. I just
let it all hang out in my dream state. This meant that I was being the same way in
my waking state. The day before I had gone on a job interview and I communicated
very openly about who I was and some of the metaphysical beliefs I held. While I did
not get the job (and glad that I didn’t) I open about who I was. I guess I was a little
shocked at how I acted in the dream, as it certainly was an extreme for me, as naked
dreams go. I’ve had plenty of naked dreams, but nothing like this.
It is easy for us to view our dreams on purely a physical level. While there is a
connection from our dreams to our physical life, the real meaning is gained from
from understanding them on a spiritual level. The spiritual is who and what we
really are. You will find that you will not die if you openly reveal to others things
about yourself not revealed before. Try just openly revealing something about
yourself that you normally wouldn’t. You might mention to a friend that you lack
confidence in an area of your life, for example. Part of life is learning to transcend
our fears. By communicating to your friend that you lack confidence, they just might
be able to help you overcome this lack of confidence and help you move on with
your life.
By the way, my wife has started to have naked dreams. As she has begun to be
more open in who she is with others, it is no wonder. She even had an intimate
encounter in one dream, but that is for another article.
Dave Lappin He has been interpreting and teaching about dreams for over 15 years. He
has appeared on radio and TV across the Midwest. As well, he has given talks to a wide
variety of groups across the Midwest regarding dreams and other metaphysical topics.
Dave is also a Reiki Master, artist, and writer. You can visit Dave’s website at:
http://www.understand-your-dreams.com or by e-mail at: dave@understand-your-
dreams.com
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