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A few years ago, while interviewing some Silicon Valley achievers, I discovered that
successful people are dreamers, shakers and movers. While others talk about their
dreams, achievers are doing it. They don’t wait for the right time, right weather or
approval from others. They jump in and take charge. They have a lot of fun along
the way as they explore, discover, plan and act on their dreams.
Take a look at the 8 traits listed below that identify the success strategies of the
Silicon Valley achievers that I interviewed. Evaluate yourself on each trait and
practice improving those traits that need strengthening. In no time you will find
yourself achieving more than you ever dreamed possible.
The Success Traits of Silicon Valley Dynamos
1. Believe in Yourself. Be positive. Be bold. Silicon Valley role models are
assertive and confident in their decisions and activities--they believe they can do
what they aim to do. And they know that the only limits that really count are the
ones people place upon themselves. Looking for the good in other people, dynamos
approach life with enthusiasm. Practice builds self-confidence. Just like Olympic
champions, practice until you get it right and have an insurmountable belief in
yourself that you can do it.
2. Educate Yourself. Knowledge is power--increased knowledge
strengthens self-esteem. The dynamic people interviewed practice honing their
skills every day; learning is a lifelong habit they enjoy. They operate like Olympians
who practice their skills daily for success--they read, attend seminars, take higher-
learning classes, find mentors, and learn everything they can on the job. To get
what they want, they’re willing to go the extra mile in search of answers. With
childlike ingenuousness, they’re willing to ask questions of knowledgeable people
who have the answers they need to reach success.
3. Work with Winners. Super achievers know enough to ask for help and
advice. No one succeeds alone. When making an uncomfortable change is
necessary, they garner support. Gail Turner, the first woman to build her own
experimental aircraft and fly solo from California to Wisconsin, had 30 friends help
her build her second airplane. They came because they were caught up in her dream
and her enthusiasm was infectious. “Don’t be afraid to ask for help,” Gail said. “Get
advice: Successful people love to help others actualize their dreams.”
4. Take Risks. They pushed through their fear. They kept on going and
kept failure in perspective. None of them saw an obstacle as the end. They kept on
going trying other routes until they found one that worked. They pushed through
fear by taking more risks. They saw risk as challenges and opportunities.
Networking trailblazer, Cesar Plata of MuyBueno.Net said, “As with anyone
launching a startup business, I have endured many personal and financial sacrifices
and struggles. I did not see these efforts as barriers; I accepted them as learning
experiences. The way I see it, they were simply unmet challenges.”
5. Exercise the Will to Change. Motivators’ inner strength keeps them on
course. “Will is like a muscle--it grows stronger when you exercise it regularly,”
said change expert Dr. Sidney B. Simon in his book, “Getting Unstuck.” Dynamos
produce enough will to stay with any course of action they choose. Dynamos are
passionate about their dreams--and they approach their goals creatively, open-
mindedly, embracing change, and frequently looking for new opportunities.
6. Keep Hope Alive. Visionaries always see alternatives to problems:
Light at the end of the tunnel. They look for options and ways to achieve their
goals. Kilsoon Kim maintained hope that her children would be well educated--even
after her husband died and she lost her home. She saved her money and her
children did go to college. Stay focused on your goal and never give up.
7. Visualize and Dream. Dynamos clearly imagine reaching their goal.
They see the end result in their mind’s eye and then turn their dreams into reality.
They know what it takes to achieve their dreams, and they persevere until they
reach their goal. Gail Turner dreamed about building her own airplane although she
didn’t know how to do it; she envisioned and believed it would happen.
8. Embrace Excellence. Achievers compete with themselves and attain
excellence by challenging themselves to do better. Most avoid those deadly energy
drainers: procrastination and perfectionism. Successful people practice self-
improvement each day. Even if what they do isn’t perfect, they remain flexible to
keep on going.
Success is always a journey”, said Sal Dossani, president of Joinus travel agency.
“Once we actualize a dream, in time we want to move on to something else that will
challenge and fulfill our lives. Be creative and use your inspiration and imagination
to follow your dreams.”
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About the Author
Joan Clout-Kruse, author of “Top 10 Traits of Silicon Valley Dynamos,” is a 90-Day
book coach and speaker. She presents training programs on the topics: “Are You
Ready To Write Your Book?” “How To Write A Book Fast,” and “How To Overcome The
Fear of Speaking.”
Contact Joan Clout-Kruse, the Book Writers' Coach through her Web site
http://powerhousewriting.com or at 650 759-2042 for a free 30 minute
consultation to determine if you are ready to write your book. She is also the author
of two e-books “How To Write Your Book In 90 Days or Less,” and “The ABCs of
Success.”
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