Competition can be friendly and fun as opposed to back-stabbing and cruel. You do not have to deceive others for your light to shine. We all have different talents and abilities, in which makes us unique as women. So why are you trying to be like the women that you are competing against? Because you envy them and you are an insecure woman.

Insecure women have very low self-esteem, no self-confidence, and can’t even begin to think self-awareness, resulting in cruel remarks and judgement of other women that they don’t even know. You see, if you were so secure with yourself, you probably would have given a compliment instead of “She thinks she is all of that.” You really thought she was all of that, or you wouldn’t have made the comment in the first place. Insecure women have no identity and want so desperately to find one so they seek out the confident woman and mimic her every move, her mannerisms, and her style and in the same turn, always making negative remarks about her. Instead of wasting all of your insecure energies on trying to cause discomfort in the confident woman’s life, why don’t you invest positive energies into improving your own.

Confident women are confident because they believe in themselves and their abilities. They know what they are worth and no one can tell them different. They didn’t get this way by sleeping with the boss or deceiving others. They earned this confidence because of the struggles in their past, the perseverance in their present, and the contentment in their futures.

If you are an insecure woman and you are reading this article.....Get It Together! Stop trying to strip women of their confidence by digging your self-esteem further and deeper into the ground. Work on yourself, build your confidence and become self-aware. This way, there’ll be no need to envy what another woman has because you’ll be satisfied with what you already have.

Sincerely,
Monica M. Burns
Monica M. Burns, Editor

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