Ok can somebody please help me out here?

Why does this subject remain such a taboo?

We are now subject to daily and nightly doses of ‘Is your man suffering with erection problems’ adverts on national television offering treatments and techniques that suit your lifestyle but dare we mention the achievement of a fulfilling sex life for women and would the men be interested in learning with us? Not, you understand, that I feel that mans sexual achievement isn’t as important for him.

I am a believer but will somebody please explain the techniques? In the readily available, bigged up and exclaimed ‘Squirting Girls’ movies and pictures how many of them are actually achieving female ejaculation for real and how many are douching and cheating?

Can any woman achieve this or just the lucky one’s. Is it more about anatomy, psyche or technique? I understand the concept of orgasms during penetration and how some women do and some women don’t but what I want more than anything is to learn if I can and how to ejaculate.

Easy I thought, look it up on the World Wide Web! I can buy a book, buy a video, watch movies or look at thumbnail pictures but I just can’t seem to get the information I’m after.

Not only am I struggling with the techniques but with the obvious taboo about the subject. With the alleged sexual liberation of us girls it still seems a hidden topic, for the porn industry only! Is this a deliberate attempt to keep us girls in the dark, to keep us from taking control over our own sexual preferences and achievements?

Some information leads us to believe that we aren’t ejaculating at all but that we have a stress incontinence problem that we should see a doctor about, where as other information offering the freedom and amazingly easy techniques is only available by buying into what is obviously the next big thing! Please don’t make us pay for our liberation, if every other sexual activity is freely available with colour coded and choreographed moves then why not this one? Yours truly, frustrated, willing and just slightly curious!

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