Every girl wants to have at least a good boy friend with which she can share her joys and sorrows. It is also their biological and psychotically need. The bubble of having many boy friends is bursting because of the scare of aids and many other sexual diseases. Although sex is not a part of boy-girl friendships yet it happens in most of the cases. So wise people adopt the policy of one good boy friend or girt friend.

Most of the girls have to face the problem of keeping their boy friends in their hold. But after a certain period it becomes difficult for a girl and she starts feeling frustration. Sometimes she thinks that her boy friend is neglecting her and having friendship with another girl. Consequent situation is difficult to cope. She loses her appetite, sleep and joy. She is unable to solve the problem. Here are some good tips which can a girl to keep his boy friend always hovering around her. She can enjoy the life to maximum. Even other girls may feel jealous of her.

1. Don’t Make a Boy Friend in a Hurry

The first step is to keep patience and don’t be in a hurry to make a boy friend. Such hurried steps often cause heart-burns. Moreover, you may be exploited by a bad boy friend. The horrible experience may shatter your dreams or even career. Observe the boys whom you come in contact with. Step forward cautiously and go for the right one. His nature must be suitable to your temperament. He should be a nice and career-oriented boy.

2. Try to Give the Life Style He Wants

Most of the girls forget the life style his boy friend wants. They are more concerned with their own life styles. It is ok to live your own life style. After all you can’t sacrifice your wishes for others. But when you have got a boy friend that is good for you then his life style must be understood too. You should help him in every way. And you will be surprised he will care for your feelings and wishes more.

3. Do Unique Things for Him

Don’t be a boring girl friend. If you treat him like a robot he will start looking elsewhere after a gap of time. It is human nature. You can’t change it. So use your mind and do unique things for him now and then. Give him surprises. For example, learn a recipe secretly and prepare a new dish for him when he least expects. Give him a thing he likes. You don’t need to wait for special occasion like his birthday, new year, Christmas, etc. You may suddenly kiss him during unexpected hours. In fact it is difficult to give details of such things. You have to invent your own uniqueness according to your and your friend’s’ nature.

4. Give Him a Breathing Space

In the beginning period of friendship both boy and girl are curious and want to explore each other as much as they can. They want to be always with each other and show a tolerant attitude. But after some time the euphoria subsides and both of them need some breathing space. This phase must be understood by a girl. She should then try not to be on her boy friend’s neck all the time. He may start avoiding her. After all he also needs to devote time to his study, career or family.

5. Control Your Nagging Habit

It is the biggest factor behind break-ups. A girl becomes nagging and adamant in her demands after a period. It irritates the boy friend. Friendship remains no more a thrill for him and he seems bored. Most of the girls don’t understand it. Instead a girl starts thinking that her boy friend has changed and she curses him more. Consequences: tiffs, frustration, and then break-up

6. Share His Problems

Every human being has problems, thus you have your own too. Your boy friend mostly understands your problem and tries to solve them. Be wise to know that he too has his problems. Understand those problems and try to solve them. No boy leaves a girl friend that becomes his strength in life. So become his strength.

Anandrahi

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Mohammad Khairul Alam

AIDS Researcher

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Dhaka-1211, Bangladesh

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Worldwide, rates of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) among adolescents are soaring: one-third of the 340 million new STDs/STI each year occur in people under 25 years of age. Each yearly, more than one in every 20 adolescents contracts a curable STDs/STI. More than half of all new HIV infections occur in people between the ages of 15 to 24 years. The sexual health needs for adolescent girls are generally overlooked, Stigma and vulnerability affects particular groups of men as well as women. Although men generally have more access to information on sexual issues than women, and more decision-making power regarding sexual behavior, Access to information, and treatment for other infections which facilitate the transmission of HIV and onset of AIDS, including STDs/STI, are limited because of weak public health services, health workers’ negative attitudes, and the high cost of treatment.

Adolescent girls in poor families in Bangladesh, most of whom are out-of-school, comprise a sizeable proportion of the female population. They are especially vulnerable and neglected, coming under the purview of government programs only once they are pregnant- the majority are out of school and are neither serviced by educational or school health programs nor by child health, reproductive health and nutrition services. At the family level too, girls are highly vulnerable: male child preference is pervasive, resulting in gender inequality in health care, food intake, school attendance and labor contribution of children, from an early age.

In generally, Bangladeshi women or girls are basically getting sexual experience through marriage and for the most part, premarital sexual contact is mostly confined to their future husband or lovers. Rainbow Nari O Shishu Kallyan Foundation found, sexual behaviour among Bangladeshi women is changing. Adolescent girls may not remain in the traditional sexual confinement of the previous generations and casual sex among them is on the rise. This may encourage AIDS to acquire alarming proportions in Bangladesh.

A new strategy apply some reprobate people a very recent that several college or university girls are being enrolled into providing privately sex works (Residential sex work) through blackmail methods often by taking their nude photograph or short movie by digital hidden mini camera, when they engage consensual sex work or close entertainment with their lovers or friend and threatening them that the photos or movies would be published in poster form if they do not agree to their terms and conditions.

There are also several groups of adolescent people with increased vulnerability for HIV transmission because of their social status. Among the growing number of street children or street girls, the risk of infection is exacerbated due to a high prevalence of risky sexual behaviors and injecting drug use. Although the growing public awareness of the existence of the HIV crisis, the actual knowledge of the problem is superficial, particularly among adolescents. Their understanding of the modes of transmission and prevention methods is incomplete and often misconstrued. Recent research in North region’s three districts in Bangladesh by Rainbow Nari O Shishu Kallyan Foundation & L.R.B Foundation has shown that while provide HIV information with discussions of safe-sex and gender issue may be discouraged for young girls and women because of the ordinary belief that to inform them about sexuality and safe-sex is to encourage sexual activity. Even though that for fear of encouraging sexual activity, mothers deny imperative information about sexual-live, safe sex, reproductive health information from their daughters.

HIV/AIDS is a deadly disease, but also everybody can safe from it. Everyone can protect from HIV infection by making smart decisions about sex and drugs. Some things are very risky to do, some less risky, and some are 100 percent safe. Obviously, the surest way to avoid the virus is to choose not to have sexual intercourse - vaginal, oral, or anal - and not to use illegal drugs. By the way, what is therefore urgently required for adolescents are programs/ activities which help deal with they're own well-being, their health, their bodies and their sexual lives. This is particularly important in light of the HIV pandemic and in light of growing evidence of both ignorance in sexual matters on the one hand and considerable sexual activity among young unmarried people in the other.

Reference: UNAIDS, World Bank, STD network

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